In June of 2013 my brother met a girl. September 5th he emailed and said "I'm dating this girl Kelly. She's really nice". Few days after Thanksgiving he sends a picture of an engagement ring on her finger. March 22nd we get to watch them take their vows and it is an amazing moment.
"She's really nice" was such a complete understatement. My brother found the most amazing girl to share his life with and I smile still each time I say "my brother and his wife".
We had a wonderful weekend celebrating Ben and Kelly. Since Keith and I were still on maternity/paternity leave we headed to Champaign, IL Thursday afternoon. Stopping to drop Kolby off and pursue the outlet mall. Were so slow my parents and grandpa caught up with us. Had dinner at Chili's with them before heading back on our way. After driving a bit we are passed by Ben...who left after work. Finally get to IL around 1:00am, exhausted but excited.
Friday morning we enjoyed bagels courtesy of Kelly's brother. Relax around hotel until we meet her parents for lunch. Can see why Kelly is such an amazing person. After lunch we head back to the hotel and take Gavin swimming. He was less than thrilled by the cold water. We decide to take a long nap cuddled up together. Wake up and go downstairs to Ben and Kelly's non rehearsal dinner. Have amazing food and fun with a mixing of the two families. Games are broken out late in the evening and I play a few before heading to bed. Keith and gang keep on going!
Saturday morning we enjoy breakfast with Nass family and Grandpa O at the hotel before trying out the pool again. Gavin was a little less shocked by the water and tolerated for awhile. Ordered Jimmy Johns for lunch for entire Nass family and squeezed everyone into our hotel room to eat. Mara, Mom and I then headed to Kelly's house to watch her get ready for a bit. Once back at the hotel got ready and dressed Gavin up in his wedding best! Headed to the Refinery for wedding and reception.
Was captivated by their wedding ceremony. The entire night was "so them" and just perfect. Highlights:
- Seeing the beautiful bride before the wedding.
- Watching Ben as Kelly walked down the aisle. Pure happiness.
- Watching Ben and Kelly complete the Jesus fish together.
- Participating in the sibling blessing.
- The announcement of Mr. and Mrs. Ben Carlson!
- Breakfast food for dinner
- Ed and Esther's Coffee Bar (This was HUGE highlight)
- Pittman family in the photobooth
- The dads powerpoint presentation helping us get to know their kids!
- Dixit cards as guestbook
- Dancing with my boys
- Nass family dance party
- Watching Ben and Kelly dance
- Seeing Gavin in his adorable wedding outfit
Sunday morning we packed things up and headed home. Keith had to head back to work Sunday night so we made the drive with minimal stops.
It was a weekend to remember. What I'll remember most is how happy Ben was and how thankful I am that God brought Kelly into his life (and our lives). Also watching them was seeing love, if that makes sense.
Weekend to remind us of how blessed we are with our family.